"If God is so good why would He even allow hell to exist? God isn't like that. He wants everybody to live with Him in love. It doesn't make sense for a loving God to punish anyone. I mean...He's God. It's His say in how we end up and He loves us too much to punish us."
Sound familiar?
I read a bunch of Christian posts in forums that sounded just like this. Logically this would make sense. It sounds like pretty solid reasoning and it also has a tint of hope in it that suggest that no matter how you live God is love and He wouldn't dare punish someone with an eternal sentence of hell. The truth is that God is a God of love (2 Cor 13:11) but if He was just that He wouldn't be much of a God would He? He would be the most single faceted God I've ever heard of. People are more complex than this why would we assume that God isn't. We can't. It's a bad assumption. So let's see what else God is.
"He is the Rock, his works are perfect, and all his ways are just. A faithful God who does no wrong, upright and just is he." (Deuteronomy 32:4)
"God is a righteous judge, a God who expresses his wrath every day." (Psalm 7:11)
Let's just deal with these two. "He is the Rock" (referring to foundational rock) "his works are perfect and all his ways are just". In order for God to be just there must be a right and wrong. Because God is just He will reward the right and punish the wrong. If He didn't this scripture would be a lie about God. But in His justice we have the comfort and the contract that He is a "faithful God who does no wrong". If a punishment is given it's not because of God's unjustness but because, in addition to the love that is a characteristic of Him, He administers judgement because it is also part of His nature. It is not up to us to seperate those things that God is in order to construct a perception of Him that helps us sleep better at night.
The second assumption made in this type of thinking is also just as bad. Let's, for the sake of argument, say that God is love and that's it and that He won't punish us to hell. What's wrong with this picture is the fact that we assume that we're good enough to deserve Heaven. We're good enough to live in the presence of God for all eternity. He's God and we're His children so we're entitled to life with Him. The truth is no one is entitled to eternal life at all. We only have it by His grace. It was Adam and Eve's decision to seperate from God and it was our decision that we didn't want to have anything to do with Him. It was His decision to send Jesus, in the form of a man, to serve in the place we couldn't. We could never be the sacrifice to save ourselves. You don't sacrifice a blemished life to save a blemished life. Only an unblemished sacrifice is enough. So it was God's grace that paid what we could not. How is it that we "deserve" eternal life?
"All of us have become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous acts are like filthy rags; we all shrivel up like a leaf, and like the wind our sins sweep us away." (Isaiah 64:6)
"Do not bring your servant into judgment, for no one living is righteous before you." (Psalm 143:2)
It's a big mistake to assume we get a free ticket into paradise. And I still have no idea what that assumption is based on. We don't deserve it but because He is God we can have it. He's reached out His hand on so many occasions (in the garden, during the exodus, on the cross, in our lives). Time after time He's extended an opportunity for us to be a part of Him and more often than we can afford we turn it down. "No thanks God, I'm okay." When do we open our eyes and see who He really is. Not just a loving God but a just God, a vengeful God, a God who knows the sincerity of our hearts and the extent of our righteousness. When do we take advantage of this opportunity He has given specifically to us?
"That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved." (Romans 10:9-10)
In our minds this is too high a price to pay so we turn away as if this was just a helpful suggestion and not the promise of the One true God. And if we take Him up on this promise of grace we will obtain what was out of our grasp. There will be a day when God surveys the body of people He created and will separate those who love Him from those who wanted to live their life without Him. When the matter of eternal life arises their justice will be "Ok you've voluntarily lived your life without me. That was your choice. So I won't force you to live with me in eternal life either. That wouldn't be fair to you."
God is watching you. What are you showing Him?